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Итак, мы с Вами выработали план. И на первое место в этом плане мы поставили ровное, доброе отношение к ребенку. В идеале – это проявление безусловной любви, когда дети знают: что бы они ни делали и ни говорили, сколько бы ошибок не совершили, папа и мама их все равно любят.
 
Пожалуй, это самый трудновыполнимый пункт нашего плана. Нам кажется, что мы уже достигли совершенства. Но стоит малышу или подростку чего-то не сделать или сделать ненадлежащим образом, не совсем уместно себя повести или сказать что-то неприличное, как мы тут же проявляем свое недовольство.
 
Происходит это по причине отсутствия взаимопонимания. Мы, взрослые, страшно любим всякие правила. Дети не подчиняются правилам, для них важно общение. Вы можете принудить детей «вести себя как надо», подталкивать их к правильным поступкам, но нет гарантии, что дети будут любить и слушаться Вас. Вы увидите их реакцию, внешне похожую на послушание, но в душе они затаят страх, недовольство и гнев.
 
Если в отношениях с ребенком нет любви и терпимости, ждите неприятностей. Когда дети ведут себя плохо, Вы, конечно, можете играть в полицейского. Но если Вы проявите терпение, ободрите их, продемонстрируете любовь и внимание, то дети с пониманием откликнуться на Ваши правила. Отсюда, выведем уравнение. Вернее два.
 
1. Правила – взаимопонимание = бунт
2. Правила + взаимопонимание = гармония
 
Сколько бы лет не было Вашему ребенку, четыре или четырнадцать, никогда не поздно искать общий язык с ним. Не опускайте руки, и Ваши усилия будут вознаграждены! И даже не думайте в этом сомневаться!!!

Всегда спрашивайте себя:
1. «Как достичь взаимопонимания с ребенком?»
2. «Когда я говорю «нет» - смотрит мой ребенок на меня как на друга, или как на чудовище?»
3. «В чем я не прав?»
 
ПОМНИТЕ:
Если ребенок не видит постоянства ваших чувств, его самосознание не развивается, а самоуважение – уходит. Дайте ребенку понять, что Вы его любите независимо от поведения.
 
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